how technology made us RUDE and LAZY ..

E-mails, text messages, voicemails- you name it, we’ve got it. Technology has created many creative and wonderful ways for us to keep in touch with each other, as well as make our lives easier at the same time. With our busy schedules, it is not always easy to keep in touch with friends and family the way we would always like to. The days of sitting down and having a nice, long phone conversation seems like a memory of the past and is a rare thing to happen on a frequent basis these days. Not to worry though, because with E-mails and text messaging available, we are sure to keep in touch with people properly, right? Wrong! One might assume that the more options we have with communication, the better we would be at it, but studies and observances have shown this not to be the case. It seems like the more options we get and the easier ways of communication become, the ruder and lazier we get.
Everyone considers themselves important and expects others to see them the same way. If we do not get respectful and thoughtful acknowledgement from others, we feel hurt and upset and this is happening a lot these days. Text messages have replaced the “phone call” and even then people do not always keep up with text messages very well either. We have gotten used to receiving e-mails and text messages without getting back to people in a timely manner, if at all. It seems like as long we are being kept in touch with, everything is fine, but what we often forget is that our lack of manners to acknowledge these messages leaves the sender feeling unappreciated, unacknowledged, hurt, upset and even worried.
In this world of heavy studying and long work hours, we all have a mutual understanding that there are not enough hours in the day, so no one is really expecting anyone to give them a long time of undivided attention.  That being said however, people do still expect to be appreciated and respected, especially by those they consider their friends.  With everyone just a click or push button away, would it really hurt to just quickly send an e-mail or text message back, letting someone know that their message has been received? It only takes a minute and will make everyone happy. Your friend will be happy and will not be left wondering and assuming the worst and you will feel better that you treated someone the way you want and expect to be treated.
Oh yes- and don’t forget to give your friends a phone call if you actually have the time.  Many people have expressed their annoyance and frustration when their friends and family choose to text them rather than actually talk to them voice to voice. Text messaging is something you should only do if you only have little time to send a message out, but should not be replacement of real communication. So while we enjoy the pleasures of advancing technology and use it to our benefit (as we should), let us remember not to throw our manners and consideration out the window.

money can't buy happiness .........

To begin with, when one says that “money can’t buy happiness”, one means that happiness is by no means dependent on wealth, as it is understood that the word “money”, in this saying, should be read “much money”. Is being rich the necessary and sufficient requirement for happiness, that is the question. Let us ask various pupils from any secondary school about their conception of happiness. They will certainly give very different answers. Some may say “to succeed in life” and others may say “to love and be loved”, implying that they do not build their bliss on financial success. And to those answering “to have a lot of money” we could ask: “how much is a lot?” as it is a well-known fact that earning money drives you to earn even more. Françoise Sagan, the late famous French writer who was richer than most of us, was asked if she had ever been happy. She answered: “I might have, long ago, once or twice.” Is it that, instead of happiness, money and success bring frustration, or is it just that, though indispensable in our consumer society, money has nothing to do with happiness? Strangely enough, though money is an uncountable word, you can quantify what it refers to. A ten-pound note, materially if not psychologically, will be the same sum for a homeless and a millionaire. On the other hand, while you can say “how much money?” you can’t really say “how much happiness?” This means that this notion is both grammatically and philosophically an “unquantifiable factor”. To conclude, we could say that we agree with the afore-mentioned saying, not that, as they will say, happiness is priceless but because it is indefinable and intangible whereas money, despite Stock Market speculation, can be calculated.

family is everything .:)

    this is my parents ...my father Ibrahim Bin Talip work as car dealerships at small company and my mother Sarimah Binti Kamat work as nurse at Hospital Pantai .

    Ibrahim's family at CAMERON HIGHLANDS!

wow!i like this picture .it's looks glamorous ..at genting highlands ..

my first brother Mohd Shahrir Bin Ibrahim and his wife Nor Ain Binti Mohamad ..

and the above is my sister Isfamaya Binti Ibrahim and her husband Mohd Nizam Bin

the only my twin brother Muhammad Shalihin and Muhammad Shabillah ..

Girl's generation ..:)

sayidatina aisya is me !

Hi everybody, my name is Sayidatina Aisya Bt Ibrahim .You all can call me either tina or aisya ..For information this one is my first blog, before this I never have any blog. First things let me tell you all about my background. I came from Malacca, stay at Kampong Telok Bukit Katil 75450 Melaka,and I was a pure Malacca, why I’ am said this because I was born here on 17^th august 1992. My mother and my father also were born in Malacca and I only keep continue my study here which is my primary school is Sek.Keb.Jalan Datuk Palembang Melaka and my secondary school is Sek.Men.Keb.Bukit Baru Melaka and then I further my study at Matriculation College in accounting at Malacca .After that I get an offer to continue my study at University Teknologi Mara in Bachelor of Business Administration (finance) at Malacca. Maybe it’s my luck to get near with my family. :) ..And I really hope that my future husband also came from Malacca..hehe ..:D ..So done with my background. But chopp! What my hobby and ambition??When I have free time I like to spend my time lying on the bed while listening to music and then sleeping.Wow! Great right. And then my ambition I want to be banker and then if could not be I prefer to open business under my name for example “Tina@Aisya Bridal Sdn Bhd” sure interesting ..: D ....I think that’s all I can share with you guys, hope you guys understand what I’m trying to say .cheers:)